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Signs
You Are Dating A Loser
It’s a fact that most men
don’t know how to date.
Dating is that wonderful step in our lives where we begin to experience
the sharing of love, giving of ourselves emotionally and physically, to
someone special.
Relationships are built on trust and communication. The ability to
understand that special person in your life is what separates us from
the animals. Making the effort to appreciate and compliment who we are
partnered with makes life worth living.
But if you’re in a relationship with the wrong guy, you’re in trouble.
You’ll find yourself in an “emotional debt” where the guy doesn’t even
understand what’s going on while you’re dating.
He won’t understand the commitment you’ve placed in your being together.
He will reveal himself to be “the loser” you promised yourself that
you’d never, ever date again.
If only you knew the signs that you were dating a loser so you wouldn’t
put so much time and energy into your relationship just to become
disappointed, yet again, in the guy you thought was so great. If you
didn’t date the loser you wouldn’t have to break up with him. Right?
So right here and now I will reveal to you the signs that the guy you
are dating is a loser:
- Pay attention to what he wears. Describe the last pair of shoes he was
wearing: broken sneakers? Unshiny slip-ons? Worn out oxfords? If he
doesn’t wear nice shoes, the rest of his wardrobe is usually faded
jeans, torn shorts and t-shirts with stains. Sure, he might try to clean
up nice but do you really want to be the one to tell him to “dress
nicer” or have to take him shopping so he has a sense of style?
- Does he pay attention to
personal grooming? Does he look just as great running into you at an odd
time as he does when you’re on a planned date? Hair clean? Face shaved?
Clothes clean and unrumpled?
- Does he open doors for you?
A guy’s first sign of respect is being “the gentleman” around you. Manners
aren’t passé, they are warning signs when they are missing.
- Phone calls are abrupt or
he calls and has nothing to say. Does he call at odd times as if he’s
checking up on you? Does he call you at inappropriate places such as work,
and friend’s places?
- His employment record is
spotty at best. If he hasn’t had a steady job for the last 12 months, what
do you expect of him in the future? Commitment goes beyond relationships
into the career arena, where a guy commits to earning a decent living. If he
can’t, do you need to support him?
- Is his car held together
with baling wire and chewing gum? Is he always complaining that his truck is
breaking down? Repair bills to high? Can’t get good auto insurance? Too many
tickets to pay off? If he can’t manage a basic such as decent
transportation, where do you think you’re going with him?
- What is his living
situation? Sponging off mom and dad? More roommates that you can count on
your fingers and toes? Prefers sleeping in his car than the streets? If he
hasn’t his own place, nicely furnished, consider the fact that he just
doesn’t care how he lives. Is that how you wasn’t to set the pace for your
future home?
- He doesn’t have any money.
Wait, let me qualify that statement, “he doesn’t have any money to spend on
you”. Now, I don’t mean that you’re a gold digger, that you’re expecting
diamonds or gold on your second date. But does he split the bill with you?
Or are you paying for him? Does he buy you any small gifts on a whim? Just
because he thought of you? Or does he always have money for himself and none
to spare to buy you a proper dinner or even a treat when you’re out
together? Does he need a “small loan” just for a few days?
So there you go, the loser you may be dating has been described above.
Run for the hills! Stop returning his calls. And get him to sign an
agreement of that loan you gave him!
And take the next step and download "Catch Him & Keep Him" so you can be
better prepared against the tourists from "Loserville" that are escaping
their humdrum existence to impose on your wonderful life.
Why don't you try the book for a week so you can decide if you want to keep
it?

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Honestly, I think you could learn more in a few hours reading the book than
most women might learn in their whole LIVES about how to meet and attract
men the right men AND what the specific steps are to develop an amazing
relationship he won't ever want to come to an end.
Go check it out:
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planning your future dates.
And if you’re not sure, take the next step and read more about “Catch
Him and Keep Him”. It’s not convincing that’ll help you to decide to
download the “Catch Him and Keep Him” ebook, it’s conviction. A certain
step to a more successful future with the next man you date or the man
you’re dating now.
Start here.
To your future, Robert Lee
More Links
Stop Dating Frogs -
Have you dated a guy that turns out not to be who or what you first
thought of him? It's time to stop dating frogs and become able to
attract the guy that you want to keep!
Catch That Guy! - How Do I Get Him Back? It's a question I get all
the time from women that points out a common misunderstanding women have
about men.
Catch That Man! - Why men withdraw and what to do about it.
Catch Him and Keep Him - The original woman's dating resource that
inspired "The Psychology of Catching Him and Keeping Him".
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Cheerful Attitude Web Design Ltd., Christian Carter and Catch Him Keep
Him Inc..
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